Dear Grandma: I am writing to ask you for help with Nee-Nee. I don’t believe she respects me. She hung up on me today. I asked her not to raise her voice to me. I feel she could be harming Javon’ s spirit. She treats Buddy like a king and Javon like a peasant. He is using. I want to take him. I am trying to go back to work too. I can’t afford to take care of him. She had done so much to me, unkind and kind. I just let her go. I wanted to disown her. But I have not. I love you so much. I miss you terribly. I know life there is beautiful. I wish you would tell me about it sometime. Your baby, Dooley