Dear Grandma,
I greatly miss our lengthy chats over popcorn and beer. I know you are here in the form of your Ba and Ka and I know your Ka appreciates the beer and popcorn I place on your offering table. I speak your name often and I am currently assembling an album of family photos from the last 100 years on a DVD and I will leave a copy at your offering table so you can view them using your heka. As you know, many family members have taken the night boat to the West in recent times. I know you must all gather together from time to time. None of you will be forgotten by those of us who are still among the living.
love always,
Bob